Hello Everyone,
So, during the week, it was my first time ever driving on
U.K. roads…and there was one major difference that stood out to me from the
roads in the U.A.E.
This was the size of the road lanes. Oh, my goodness, they
are incredibly tight! I could be feeling this more because I am so used to
another two feet on either side of me. This aspect of driving in the U.K. scared me and made me nervous. It reminded me
of a scene from the movie ‘The Holiday’. Where Cameron Diaz’s character is
driving on U.K. roads for the first time too.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymGpwwkyrxk
– Link for the scene in the movie.
For the first half, an hour I was
convinced that other drivers were going to hit my car! Until my partner pointed
out that if I look at the roads there is a distinct pattern on them/a guide. He
said-
‘Just look at the road there is a shiny part then a darker part then
again another shiny part. Put yourself in the middle of the dark middle part
and you will be fine. The road is like that because of wear and tear of where
other people drive on the road. So really if you follow that path you will be
okay.’
He was right! As soon as I chose
to go down one guide down the road I felt reassured that myself, passengers and
the car was a lot safer. I am still quite nervous about how much or should I
say how much space isn’t there, I have for the lanes but I feel comforted that
I have a guide of where I should be.
On reflection, I realised that
this is how I feel about the Module 3. I am so nervous that something is going
to go wrong or I will do something wrong that I start to feel stressed. I
started to think of what I feel is a guide just like the road to help reassure
me. I decided my guides or path that I use to reassure my self is a variety of
things on the course. The module handbook, the readers, skype sessions and the
SIG groups. I find reaching out to these contacts extremely useful because it
calms me to talk about everything that may be a worry or to do with my inquiry.
So even though I might start to feel nervous and scared and make the facial
expressions that Cameron Diaz does in ‘The Holiday’ while this journey
continues, I know that to find my path/guide I just need to reach out to some
of the above example.
To add onto SIG groups, when
talking to Paula during the skype session last Tuesday, we briefly talked about
the definition of what makes a SIG group. I believed that your SIG group was
only a SIG group if your inquiry topics were similar but per Paula, it doesn’t
have to be just that! It can be with people with different topics if you talk
about your inquiry and help each other out as another form of communication
within the course, that makes it a SIG group. So, I started that session with
one SIG group and ended it with three!
Thanks for reading.
Cassie V.